I guess I wasn't specific enough above, but because of my XH and discovering this site I have read DR, DB, and Getting Through to the Man You Love years ago.

I unfortunately have plenty of experience with the "script".

I agree that BF naively expected that "in love" feeling to last forever without any work.

I have seen no evidence of OW, and I am not easily fooled in that regard. It took me 3 days to figure out XH was having a PA. It is possible there is some temptation out there, but there was no change in our communication patterns (we would frequently talk during the day) and he was not hiding his phone or computer from me.

At this point my main thread is in Surviving the Big D and I have no intention of opening one in Newcomers as that is the last thing I am lol.


Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09
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