Angel, I believe you misinterpreted what I was suggesting to Wendy. When I suggest seeking the advice of an attorney, it is to see what your rights are and how to deal with the possibility of separation of assets...not to file immediately. I, myself, sought out an attorney to see what was the best way to handle the possibility of the separation of finances. No where have I advised Wendy to file for divorce, must less suggested that to anyone else. The only time that I would even offer up that advice would be if someone is being brutally beaten or has had their life threatened by their spouse.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
