Well nothing seems to surprise me these days.. H came to town to visit d (2nd time since move) and he was suppose to but support in the bank for me.. well he was short again and went on and on as to why he cant afford it.
I am faced with the realization that this is no longer about he and I, but about his financial responsibilies. I can not do this on my own, he knows this. He doesnt feel it is his "problem" I put us in the debt, I alone am the reason I can not afford to pay my bills.
the reality, he is obligated to pay child support (if I push the issue) and the other is for a tax payment we owe and the cell phone and the car insurance, I do not have him pay any of the debt.
so in short i need some advice and I need it quick.. I know if i push this i will not see a dime from him and though it is not much and is very inconsistant, it is something, something is better than nothing.. not to mention, finances are his main reason for leaving, so if i push that will be the end of it..
HELP!
m 41 h 44 d 17 (prev marriage) d 9 Never give up!!!!!
