...oh (sorry, can't edit posts, forgot this before hitting submit), the other similarity in our situations is that my wife is ALSO apparently full steam ahead on the divorce process. She said she did the papers (you can apparently do them online, which just seems plain wrong somehow), and just needs them notarized.
Me: 36 Her: 35 Together 7/09 Married 8/7/10 Separate rooms since at least April 11 "I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11 She moves out of state/files 2/7/12 Dissolution final 5/12
