The counseling is a must. Right now he's relying on his emotional high. Once that wears off, he's going to leave again because he hasn't LEARNED anything about why he feels the way he does. With awareness comes stability. The C should be a dealbreaker for you.
Right now you're in the driver's seat. Get him to agree to it or else you're gone. Ask nicely, but firmly.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
