I am disappointed for you, Hopeful. Your birthday should be a big deal to the person who is supposed to love you most in this world. It was not only rude to ignore your day but cruel to set you up like that by asking about stuff.
My H is acting the same way and I'm asking myself if I want to be consistently disappointed for the rest of my life by a man who gives the bare minimum and cares only about himself. But guess what? We created these monsters by not raising our standards and demanding they man up and be kind. In both our situations, as with all of DB... if we don't change our behavior, they won't change theirs.
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16
Dating 4/07 M 10/08 Bomb #1 12/10 Bomb #2 1/11 Bomb #3 12/11
Your birthday should be a big deal to the person who is supposed to love you most in this world. It was not only rude to ignore your day but cruel to set you up like that by asking about stuff. 