Wife in "D - Freight Train Mode"

[Grmpy_Mnky]

BL, Kd is right. I am in total LRT. I do not, nor will I see my W right now. I make it a point to stay clear of her. Two reasons:

- When I see her I loose "it". Just to emotionally volatile right now and I know this will only result in backsliding if I see her.

- For me, it is of paramount importance that I keep my distance. I have found, in this very short time, that this facilitates detaching.

I sincerly hope that at some point in the forthcoming weeks that I can begin to have personal contact with her whilst keeping my composure. I'm also forced to do this because she is steadfast in her resolve to end this marriage. No "maybe's" or "some day" about it.

Keep in mind - we are all different. My approach may not be right for you.

Good luck and hange in there!