What would happen if you went out and bought yourself the slippers and a cake and the next time he was over to the baby you say "hey, I want to share my birthday cake with you! I've decided with this new fresh start that I'm not going to get upset or sulk because I was disappointed you didn't do anything for my birthday instead I'm going to treat myself!" with a smile and don't wait for a response, just cut the cake or blow out the candles and go on about how much you love your new slippers and that you're going to start focusing on yourself more and how it was silly to wait for someone else to make you happy in past. Too passive aggressive?
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16
Dating 4/07 M 10/08 Bomb #1 12/10 Bomb #2 1/11 Bomb #3 12/11
