Originally Posted By: purgatory
H still hasn't addressed the $$ issue from this morning... I'm being patient, well, trying to be.

frown Grrrr

I'm having a really hard time not asking questions to H about the nature of their R now... But then again, I don't really want to know cause it will hurt too much. Without asking, I'm fairly sure that H will use OW to help with the kids while I'm gone. Do I have a right to ask what his plans are for the kids?? Or does this fall into the idea of letting go of control of what H does?

I think you trust that your children wouldn't ever be in danger with him, so I would NOT say a word. Not for fear of upsetting him, I just think no matter what the answer, it won't change the outcome EXCEPT to (possibly) upset you further.


I know SO much about the 'wheels churning' making up scenarios and such. It's friggen awful! Try and stop those thoughts. So easier said that done, yes, but try. I remember a post I had written a while back that when my imagination starts going, I change my scenery. IE: if at work, I'll go to the caf and grab a coffee. It usually will give the brain some new stimuli to play with

HUGS!!!!