Sorry P,

A few quick thoughts.

On one hand you have a right to know how your kids are being taken care of. However, it is your choice to go (and you shouldn't feel guilty about it) so if you ask too much your H can, and most likely will, throw this back at you for putting the need upon him. IMO, may be best to not ask unless you are specifically concerned about the welfare of your kids. If you are, then should you go?

As far as where they were when it happened, you honestly don't know. Try not to let your imagination run wild. Easier said than done for certain but try for your own sake.


Me:45, W:45
S:16 D:13
M:22, T:25
Bomb: July 2010
Putting finances in order for "D"
Continue to live in same home-separate rooms