Mnky (and BadLuck)... what you can figure out how that might work for you, in a way that is not pursuing... that statement does not have to be an oxymoron. Showing your best side does not have to be pursuing...

and BadLuck... even LRT does not prescribe no contact. No contact is more a temporary choice to help the LBS deal with detaching.

Have contact, show your best sides... just without pursuit... smile