H still hasn't addressed the $$ issue from this morning... I'm being patient, well, trying to be.

S6 got off the bus and started telling me a story about what he did last night...at OW's house. UGH!!! I knew that was most likely what they did last night, I just don't like the confirmation. Not sure why he told me after school instead of at breakfast, oh-well.

Here's the part that makes me want to scream/cry....
S said that he got a scratch from a toy, and COULDN'T FIND dad or ow. I asked where they were and he said he didn't know, but "they were talking somewhere."
He said that they showed up after he whine for a little bit.

So, what I've gathered is this:
1. They weren't anywhere in sight- probably in a bedroom somewhere.
2. They weren't actively watching/involved with the kids.

I'm having a really hard time not asking questions to H about the nature of their R now... But then again, I don't really want to know cause it will hurt too much. Without asking, I'm fairly sure that H will use OW to help with the kids while I'm gone. Do I have a right to ask what his plans are for the kids?? Or does this fall into the idea of letting go of control of what H does?


M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12