Ditto what Jenna said. He's done nothing to win you back, no changing. He's only granted you his presence and a chance to work on the marriage to win him back. Responding is going to be a tightrope walk here because if you say nothing you're allowing him to cake eat and he'll respect for you, if you say something disagreeable to him he could turn it around and blame you. How would you handle this in the past? How about posting here possible responses before you say something to him?
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16
Dating 4/07 M 10/08 Bomb #1 12/10 Bomb #2 1/11 Bomb #3 12/11
