That's the other option. We see each other on Sunday's, so I'll probably do something special then. On Valentine's Day, my guess is that her employers will want to go out and leave her to mind the kids. Also Barb, you are right about mentioning STBX! In hindsight, all I needed to say was the voucher was a Christmas gift, I didn't need to mention STBX. I'm just too damn honest, I hide sweet piss all lol! Thank goodness there's nothing bad to hide but I will try and eliminate STBX references. I am glad that SDA Lady is OK with my positive R with STBX, she said in a recent phone convo "I'm so glad you have such a special bond with your girls and you get along so well with STBX, it shows me what a good man you really are!" Yes, she says those things sometimes and I so value that about her...she's so nice. But I also have to recognize that mentioning STBX wears thin real fast lol! I texted SDA Lady this morning "Ground hog didn't see his shadow, that means early Spring. Hooray!" she replied "U seem happy, do U have plans?" and I said "to spend Sundays taking a tiny pretty lady on fun outdoor outings!" She said "Wow, I'm looking forward to that. We will have so much fun together!" Yes we will, if all goes well
