T2;
My wise DB friend.
Can you stop by and visit my thread again. I'm afraid I'm going to make a big mistake this upcoming week.

My S is coming home Monday - she's splitting up accounts - the whole 9 yards. I'm making every effort to make positive memories and just listen and validate. Hopefully she will tell me why she feels the need to get out instead of working on herself through our very supportive R but whatever. I wrote her a card. Can you stop by and see if I'm making a mistake.

I'm in a panic and you are the wisest DBer I know.

Thanks,
Totally