OH LORDY! Yep, ditto. I told you it's a script, right? They are so miserable yet they strike up these twisted R's with the op and then whine to us (the people they still trust even though we don't trust them) about how miserable their life is. All of this after they have been playing 'fat and happy' with the op.

Yep, they're a mess alright!

ITM, my only suggestion at this moment is ignore his texts about his crappy life, don't be empathetic, don't do anything. Just shake your head in disbelief and move on with the life you are creating for you and your son.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!