T2, you're one of the ones where if we don't hear from you for a few days, I am happy and feel like perhaps some good stuff is happening for you. Hope I'm right.
BTW - if DBing is an art form, does that make you my muse?
Nah, reading your mistakes helps me to not make the same ones. Not trying to be mean, just trying to state facts. You're great, you're strong, you're insightful and wise, and you are human. It helps to have you around. You and others like you are one of the great reasons this BB works.
Thanks to DBer Imalright (aka Deb) who posted my threads on the Success Stories page on 1/5/04...you'll find ALL my hideous thread links about 1/2 way down the page on the below thread:
I agree with Rottzilla - we really appreciate you being here! Thanks for continuing to visit, send helpful advice and post your story for others to glean helpful information!
T2; My wise DB friend. Can you stop by and visit my thread again. I'm afraid I'm going to make a big mistake this upcoming week.
My S is coming home Monday - she's splitting up accounts - the whole 9 yards. I'm making every effort to make positive memories and just listen and validate. Hopefully she will tell me why she feels the need to get out instead of working on herself through our very supportive R but whatever. I wrote her a card. Can you stop by and see if I'm making a mistake.
I'm in a panic and you are the wisest DBer I know.
Hey T2, thanks for bringing me back down to earth last week...I'm still laughing about that. Venting just feels so darn good sometimes, it's like swearing, sometimes it's the only thing that fits the moment and it's a release of tension at the same time.
Can you take a look at my thread? Deb reminded me that your H left 2x and now is back for good. My H is now moving out again #3!! This is the first time though that he is moving into his own apt. The 2 other times he lived with a friend.
Any insite into what you think was different for your H this time would be very helpful.