Hi everyone. Been gone awhile.
Things are status quo pretty much.
I suppose XW isn't as cold as she used to be.
But I sense she still has issues. Oh well.

Steadily moving forward, although it's really slow becaus of the co-habitating thing. I expect things to move much faster when that ends. No, I'm not dating yet. Not ready. Of course the truth is, if I met someone tomorrow attractive enough to be smitten by - well I'd be smitten wouldn't I ?

The kids and I are getting along great. D18 is wrapping up her senior year in HS and making the most of it. Amazing how quickly that phase of her life passed by. Still a little concerned about S13, how he will react to seperation after D18 graduates . I am sure he'll realize he will not be "losing" either parent, and it won't be the end of the world - but still, a sad time.

I'll be back from time to time. Good luck to all DB'ers.


Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."