I would keep my mouth shut for a few more days and go to Retrouvaille. He may go and give it lip service, and he may open his mind and his heart and have a big change there. But if you don't go, you'll never know.
He has agreed to go, and he has talked to the volunteer on the phone. That means that he has said that there is not OP and that he will go with an open mind and a willing heart. So take him at his word.
When we went to Retrouvaille my husband told OW that he was going to do the weekend with me, and then he would divorce me. Well,.....things changed at Retrouvaille. No one goes in there thinking that things will change. And they don't necessarily change for everyone. But for a lot of people, things change. So go with an open mind and a willing heart.....and maybe a favorite pen that you like to write with.
