Not sure what your age is, but I know Life is a lot shorter than you seem to realize. 3 years of getting this crap would make me batchit nuts or batchit mean.
Either way, I would not like myself much.
At some point it gets harder to meet new people,
like a man who would cherish and treat you well-and Not cheat. So how long do you want to waste wait for your cheating h to wake up?
I sort of can understand a "fling" and I know how a one night stand can happen.
But the problem that I really have with long term affairs and why they'd be dealbreakers for ME is the long term deceit that is required. THat eats away at a lot of things.
It would undermine too much for me to rebuild...but that's me.
OTOH I don't see you doing the work you'd need to do to get past this
and of course, neither is your h. At all....
so as Angel said, the "victories" you are getting, are hollow and ring false. You deserve better. But you have to demand it, and then go get it. MAYBE NOT from him.
((( )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
