"I am not out of the woods, but I can finally see the light starting open up at the end of the trail. I hope I can make it there....slowly, but surely. I will say this - listen to the people on this board and don't give up until YOU think it's time. It appears divorce busting just might have worked in my case. Or at a bare minimum it CERTAINLY has carried me farther in a positive direction than I EVER would have made if left to my own, foolish ideas. I am still striving for that moment when my W and I are "OK" again - but I think we are on our way to getting there."
I think you nailed it ^^^^. Without DB, I think we'd all be in a much different place.
Continued best wishes, Crimson!
Me51 W53 S17 S14 M22 T25 Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11
It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
