Originally Posted By: purgatory
NLW- sorry you're getting the same treatment.... I wouldn't wish this on anyone!

25- thanks for taking time to post to me before you take a break (much needed after all the advice you give to us newbies smile
Its good to be reminded that this isn't the end, yet. I loose sight of that all the time. It's hard to imagine that his thoughts/feelings could ever change... But then again, 3 months ago he said 'I love you', 2 months ago he said 'I'm done', 1 month ago he said I'm ready to start dating- even though those are all negative changes- they are *still* changes: HIS changes.
MY changes: 3 months ago I loved him, 2 months ago I begged and cried, 1 month ago I got angry but didn't loose my temper... I change too.

It's a simple math equation: a+b will always equal c (old perg+ H= D)
BUT if you just change *one* factor, the outcome has to be different: new purg+H= ???


good analysis...

it sort of is like math, or at least it helps us to Keep It Simple

MUCH of DBing is super hard, I know...but it isn't actually that complicated.

we over think and obsess. So keep it simple.

Know what I mean?


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change