@Cat and Mach thanks for the education @Oys2 thanks for the kind words @Kaffe I don't have an answer to that great question but hit me up in a few
I must put me aside for a bit. While eating dinner W tells me her brother gets his surgery tomorrow. At the same time MIL calls and W explains to her the prep I went through for my coniscopy she actually says Rick did that. After she hangs up with MIL she begins to ask me tons of questions. My father fought colon cancer since 2004 and died May 24 of last year. I really feel for her and BIL. He is only 49 . I answer as vaguely as I could because I don't know the outcome. I offer to help in anyway and I meant. It. I even reminded her about our 81yo niegbhor who had a colostomy bag and open a restaurant last year and is cancer free. She did not remember. I asked if she spoke to brother she tells she hasn't cause she does not know his number? Come on really???
While she asks me all Of these I just thought that when I was going through it she was not supportive. Or did not felt it. I hope I did this right and I hope he makescit.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
