in other words, If I am interpreting Bond correctly, we're saying IF IF IF you must bring it up then the only reason is to show change and the possibility of a recon (b/c you won't hang it over her)
but in general I see no reason to bring it up at all. How does it help her think you have changed?
I mean it's more like you want her to know you know b/c......of ego reasons.
That's just more of the same old...
if you TRULY feel sorry for your role and how your anger and losing your temper at her - hurt her AND that you are changing...
then why not just tell her THAT??
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
