I am sorry to hear your dad is back in ICU... frown

But... as far as the pastor goes... smile

Hey, he can't "unknow" now... he will do what he does, whether you tell him to do something or you tell him to not do something...

Take a breath... let that one go...

And spend some time with your dad and sort some stuff out in your head and hey... have some fun with your S when you get a chance!