Well if she does move forward which most likly she will. What's others opinion on me asking for spousal support? She is the bread winner and makes almost double my income. (The house is only in my name cause when we bought it her credit was bad) Now that she has left me I can't afford the full house payment. I know that would piss her off but shouldn't I start thinking about me for once? I'm only afraid the out come would damage any future relationship which may not even be their in the first place. What would others do in my shoes?