I did end up seeing my W yesterday evening when she came to pick up my S. It turned out to be a pleasant exchange. She had a new coat on and I complimented it. She noticed some new shoes I had on and complimented them. We then got on the subject of the out of town plans, too. My W actually told my S that her and I would need to talk about it. She actually went as far to say it would be more suitable for me to go instead of her with my S, because I'm far better suited to take a 6-7 hour road trip than she is. Also, as I mentioned to ncl, I think we got at the core of why my S is texting my W - he is feeling like he gets to see me a lot more than her. Quite frankly, this is the truth. I really should be glad he wants to see her and grateful she wants to spend time with him.
My GAL'in last night was my Healing Relationships group at my church. Another great meeting. Again, I was the only guy showing up for this.
This morning it was a balmy 50 degrees again. Got in a 8.6 mile bike ride.
Lately it feels sort of like my W is DB'ing me . Just when I really start feeling ambivalent, she starts doing and saying some things that make her more attractive to me. Dangit! For now, though, I think I just have to stay the course. Like I've seen in several places around here, she'll make it very clear if she wants to come back. And for now, she hasn't said the first thing about it.
. Just when I really start feeling ambivalent, she starts doing and saying some things that make her more attractive to me. Dangit! For now, though, I think I just have to stay the course. Like I've seen in several places around here, she'll make it very clear if she wants to come back. 
And for now, she hasn't said the first thing about it.
