Sounds as if it went well. I used to be very cold to my ex as I was still hurting quite a bit. Slowly I began to treat him like the mailman. You know how you can just have friendly chatter as they give you your mail? So that has now grown to us talking about our favorite sports team, world events, friends and of course our kids. we aren't friends but I will say it is a lot nicer to be able to get along.
I have primary custody and he has our girls every other weekend. The boys refuse to do the weekends but my 16 year old will go for the few hours once a week if he isn't working. S19 rarely goes anymore as he is busy with his life.
I don't remember your whole situation but my ex cheated on me and married his affair partner a bit over a year ago.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory