I've been put on to your thread by others who thought it would be helpful. My H moved home in jan, after being Sep for 3 months. Things are going well, but i often strugle with the question of whether i want this marriage or not.
It's almost like i have detached too far from him and i don't know how to get back there, or even if i want to. I too have set 'deal breaker' conditions, with a time limit for my H, which he is fully aware of and is actually trying to do, but still i question my wisdom at accepting him back into my life!
I truely believe that this is a fantastic opportunity for H and I to create the M we always wanted, and when i put it to myself in those terms it helps me to not want to bolt and run!
How do you stop the doubts? Did you and your H attend MC? My H really wants to, but i just don't know if it would help (but I'm willing to try anything!)
My H leaving was partly to do with an illness that he couldn't accept and i tried to hard to help him with!
Any advise on how to move forward from here would be great.
