Thank you! I'm a bit nervous. Tomorrow marks 8 weeks since he left. It feels like it's been so much longer. He should be here in about 10 minutes.
What I find to be promising is that he wants a healthy, functional relationship, and that he sees issues within himself that contributed to our downfall that he wants to change. He also wants to change for himself My changes are real and lasting because I changed for myself. My changes inspired him.
Our relationship was riddled with large issues literally from the start. If we start rebuilding, we'll be in a better place than we've even been in. It would be very hard, but everything that is worth it takes hard work.
M & H 25 T 9 D 7 S 4 Bomb 11/11 Confused about feelings for me. Bomb 12/11 ILYBNILWY, moved out 2-1-12 We're exclusive & dating each other. 3-4-12 H moved back in. 3-31-12 I deserve better. I'm done
Breathe, stay calm. There's a lot going in all at once, and it's alldap exciting. I really hope he's genuine and honest about his intentions.....
Make sure you have a great day with him!!! (and just know that the rest of us LBS are a little jealous .
But really happy for you
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12
We're exclusive! OMG! We're 'trial dating'. We're getting to know each other again. We're going to go on a date every Wednesday night
I am so excited! He misunderstood me while we were talking and thought I said I didn't want to date him, and he was pretty crushed. He really wants this So do I.
M & H 25 T 9 D 7 S 4 Bomb 11/11 Confused about feelings for me. Bomb 12/11 ILYBNILWY, moved out 2-1-12 We're exclusive & dating each other. 3-4-12 H moved back in. 3-31-12 I deserve better. I'm done
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12
Thank you so much! We both agree that jumping back into a relationship would likely mean death to the R itself, but we both pretty much know we'll make it through this We'll still be living apart and just letting things fall into place naturally.
He was actually the one that brought up wanting to be exclusive.
M & H 25 T 9 D 7 S 4 Bomb 11/11 Confused about feelings for me. Bomb 12/11 ILYBNILWY, moved out 2-1-12 We're exclusive & dating each other. 3-4-12 H moved back in. 3-31-12 I deserve better. I'm done
We're still going through with filing child support and I'm still moving into my apartment and he won't be moving with. Does that make sense? We feel that stopping child support especially will put pressure on us to be fully back together, which is the opposite of what we want right now. We want to take this sloooow.
M & H 25 T 9 D 7 S 4 Bomb 11/11 Confused about feelings for me. Bomb 12/11 ILYBNILWY, moved out 2-1-12 We're exclusive & dating each other. 3-4-12 H moved back in. 3-31-12 I deserve better. I'm done
My changes are real and lasting because I changed for myself. My changes inspired him. 
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We'll still be living apart and just letting things fall into place naturally.