Still alone, but no longer confused...

[purgatory]

I think Six Flags should create a MLC roller coaster- The highest drops and scariest loops and u-turns known to man!!

Purg - funny, I just read you roller coaster comment after I had made a very similar one to NH a moment ago. That ride would without a doubt be the shittttiest ride ever. And the cost to get on would probably be at the rates lawyer's charge. And the ride would last just beyond whatever amount of time you think you can ride it.

I can see the advertisement now: "$1500 and 3 years of nauseating, frustrating, maddening twists and turns that leave you begging to get off the ride... but you can't get off because you are attached by hope, kids and love... Good luck people!"

You are so horribly right about how our S's seem to be able to drop back into the M and try it on for size whenever they want (we're keeping the road home open) and then they do seem to change on a dime and treat us with the warmth of a Nazi surgeon.
LOL!! 'nazi surgeon'- so true!!

I don't know if it makes me understand that my W is going through what many humans go through, that I should understand and it should give me more patience, or should I stop letting this game go on and stop the madness?

Sometimes more knowledge, doesn't make it any easier for us to make a decision. I guess this is where we DO have a little control- we can wait it out and hope for the best, or we can choose to move on.... For now, I'm hoping.

Isn't it scary how similar the patterns of our WAS/WAW's are? You think that everyone is "unique", but in the end we're all "the same" in one way or another.

It's strangely comforting to know that all of our WAS are on the same 'path'. Maybe we should suggest they have a support group too: "The grass ISN"T greener, dummy!"