T2, Having read through your entire sitch now - I am SO grateful that you found your way to visit me. You have some incredible words of advice - having really gone through the pain. I appreciate that now that you are on the path to healing, you are finding the time to help those of us in trouble. I cannot describe how grateful I am - and hope that I can do the same when I make it as far as you have.
Your strength in the face of adversity, your positive attitude and the fact that you came out ahead in the game - knowing that no matter what happened with your H, YOU would still be OK - and in fact better for the experience.
I found this especially meaningful: QUOTE: ____________________________________________________________ I'd like to believe that my life would have been better had none of this ever happened to me...(us)....and yet the truth is, it wouldn't have been better because we had BOTH stopped loving each other and this HELL woke us both up to what we had destroyed by our apathy towards each other. I don't think we'll ever make the same mistakes again. ___________________________________________________________
This really helps me see the truth - even though I know it in my head for my own sitch, it's still hard to see it.
Keep up the great work and keep visiting when you can. Your words are so meaningful to me. Many hugs {{{{{{{{{T2}}}}}}}}}}, Totally
