that pretty much sums my sitch up too. I agree that is the common thread that we're fighting. Too bad it wasnt a requirement for marriage to read DR and 5LL :-), and a refresher when you have kids. I think if I read them 2-3 years ago, we'd NEVER have gotten to this place in our lives.
Now that we have the arsenal, it's applying it consistenly and lovingly that's the challengs, esp when the alien rears it's ugly head, or our fears of the future make us crazy.
Bill.
"you are who you chose to be" - Iron Giant
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