Think long and hard about this... YOU want him to talk to your W... YOU want him to interfere with her thoughts... You are the one who is actually attempting to change your W's thoughts and choices and actions...
Other vets here would be more assertive and tell you to stop trying to control your W...
Your paster told you he'd like to talk to your W. Now... it is out of your hands. If your pastor really wants to talk to your W, he will find his own way to do so. Have faith in God, my friend... We cannot direct His hand...
