Sometimes... you can't even lead the horse to water... never mind make them drink...
While your pastor (like any friend) would like to interfere on your behalf... how do you think your W would feel approached by ANYone... let alone a representative of God... to discuss her... "ways"...?
If she is to understand things differently, it will be her decision...
When the student is ready, the teacher appears...
Just another way of saying, "we can't control the thoughts and choices of another"
