by your own words you were an angry and imo, verbally abusive h. (the things you called her were pretty abusive-out of bounds)
You were also gone, A LOT. She was unhappy and told you about that, often.
She wants kids but you have a temper. She left you. She's with OM now...
Not so insane.
IMO your only chance is to become the man she hoped you were and maybe once were. And could be again. Extorting OM or exposing him to others, is exactly what your worst instincts are and they are what got you here.
I'm not defending her actions but I sure understand them. And frankly I understand HERS more than yours.
Read her August letter to you again. (And anyone else who hasn't read the whole thread, OUGHT to read that before encouraging this scheme.) Finally, I see virtually zero DBing in your approach.
You stopped pursuing?
Not really. And when you had the chance for a positive interaction you denied it to her to punish her.
(SIGH)
Who were you when she fell in love with you?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
