It's one of those fleeting things that comes and goes from my thoughts... stays long enough to make an impact and then disappears and I forget what the "point was...
Every once in a while, I am reminded, and I find someone who might benefit from it:
"You can't know you've arrived until you've decided where you are going."
I had forgotten what my goals were. I hadn't written them down, likely because I wasn't sure or clear on what they were. Sometimes, my life's like that... I finally stop, look around and go... "oh yeah! This is where I wanted to be." It can be bliss sometimes, living in my brain...
Anyhow, I realized (or remembered) I had two, very certain goals:
+ I wanted to feel like my W wasn't controlling me any more
and conversely
+ I wanted to feel like I was in control of my life
