BL first off so sorry you are where you are. My wife too is fast-tracking our D. No kids here either so I seldom have contact with her. Its easy for me to say this because I am not in your sitch. I would make peace with this and let her go for now. On my thread I received some advice that changed things for me. That advice was to let go of what you are desperatley hanging on to. Let the current take you down stream - you may find that things down there are not so bad afterall. It really is a liberating thing to do. Take it or leave it my friend, but its all we have right now.


Me: 44
Bomb: 11/27/11
Divorced:6/12
Life goes on: 6/13


Dogs still like bacon...a lot.