For what it's worth, my wife is pressing ahead too, but we're without many of the positives you describe (apparently one can do all the paperwork on line now - it doesn't seem like the kind of thing that should be made THAT easy but I digress). But coyote makes a good point - in many cases, the road back together sometimes regrettably runs through this territory.


Me: 36
Her: 35
Together 7/09
Married 8/7/10
Separate rooms since at least April 11
"I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11
She moves out of state/files 2/7/12
Dissolution final 5/12