I have to say to all you young women with the WHs, I admire you for what you are doing in the face of your sitches. Parenting is tough enough with 2 people.
What I'm trying to say is, don't twist yourselves into pretzel shapes trying to control what your H does. I don't remember reading that as a DR step.
You are worth more than that. Love to you all ((())) As I said you have my admiration and respect.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss