Crimson - my thoughts are pretty much in line with 25.
During your session tomorrow, listen carefully and just as carefully think through your responses. If you don't have a response then offer to get back once you have had some time to think it through. Try not to get defensive and validate where appropriate.
I don't recall, but if you have any homework from your last session, be sure you are prepared to report out on whatever it is.
Clearly you and your W are at some sort of an intersection that depending upon how things go will determine which direction you two will be moving in the future. I'm wishing for you the very best outcome possible!
Take deep breaths and think "as if!"
Me51 W53 S17 S14 M22 T25 Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11
It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife