Well... Imma gonna go with door number three... but... with a touch of a... and a dash of that stuff in the middle...
How's THAT for hedging? lol
What do you think the likelyhood is that she's forgotten she doesn't want to be M to you?
That's what's making me wonder, Kaffe. Yes, she doesn't want to be married to me, but that doesn't mean she wants a divorce per se. I've ALWAYS had a hunch that she's still in conflict over this. Others who have talked to her or seen her (e.g. some church friends, or my mother, as I wrote about above) have noticed the same as well.
Now, I also understand that though she may be in conflict, she (like many others, i.e. the 50% who decide to end their marriages) may end up taking the easier route.
Also, why bother filing for divorce and requesting full custody and alimony/child support, and then telling me all those things in my last post?