Hi SA. Not sure if you saw my new thread, but I did post an update.

I wanted to comment on this that you said earlier in your thread:

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I also know that no marriage is perfect, but in reading about the reasons the MLCer gives for leaving the marriage, a lot of them seem so superficial and petty.


Very true! My X gave these reasons for leaving me:

I wouldn't get a vasectomy.

I always took her to the wrong grocery store.

I wouldn't let her wear what she wanted.

She was never dark enough for me.

I wouldn't let her adopt a daughter from China.

Amazing stuff isn't it? Hope you are well.

Tad


Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13