Hi SA. Not sure if you saw my new thread, but I did post an update.
I wanted to comment on this that you said earlier in your thread:
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I also know that no marriage is perfect, but in reading about the reasons the MLCer gives for leaving the marriage, a lot of them seem so superficial and petty.
Very true! My X gave these reasons for leaving me:
I wouldn't get a vasectomy.
I always took her to the wrong grocery store.
I wouldn't let her wear what she wanted.
She was never dark enough for me.
I wouldn't let her adopt a daughter from China.
Amazing stuff isn't it? Hope you are well.
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13