Hi oys2 hope what I said did not come across as too confusing. I was trying to explain my reaction to something and what feelings I felt. Paying attention to me and my behavior at this level is pretty new and it keeps the focus on me and not W.
I agree that anger is normal . I too have normal anger some of the time. But what got me here is the explosive volcano in my heart that erupts from time to time ,that is the issue. That is not normal.
So their intervention helped me understand and hopefully others will understand their anger better. And how that anger manifests itself in their own lives.
I llike the idea of taking inventory. Will think about those things.
Thank you again
Ps the walking shoe thing had to be explained to me. Lol
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
