The with holding of sex was very upsetting to me. Especially after we resumed and he turned right around and said " How did you feel after we had sex the other night?" I told him I enjoyed it and I felt like we were finally getting close again.
His response: " WEll to me it was just sex."
I then said " OK YOU DO NEED TO LEAVE.!"
Thank you so much for enlightening again dear friend. I appreciate insight on these personal stiches. I've read alot on PA behavior, but what I've come across is basic. It's a relief to talk to someone that's lived the same insanity for 20 years as well.
It really is abuse....probably at it's worse. Sometimes I think a slap in the face would've hurt less than years of these mind games.
