Hi Tested,

Sorry to hear about the medical bills.

Sorry to say it goes with the territory as well.

Im glad you feel like socializing and going to parties. Im finally to that place, but have no where to go!

If she uses it as an excuse to go full blown D then she does. A touch of a feather makes the MLCer flip their lid. I know, I've been living through it. Their pretty impulsive and there's nothing you can do to stop it. Believe me their impulses catch up with them.


M=42 XH=44
M=18 T=21
D14 D11
Divorced 4/2012
XH marries OW 6/2014.