Just my 2 cents but it seems like since you don't have your W to communicate with any more your attention is now focused on the OM. Since she filed already and you told her that you didn't want to communicate with her any more accept through lawyers, all you're going to do is dig yourself into a deeper hole.
"Again just trying to change the dynamic "
I don't think you realize that you haven't changed the dynamic. Everything you've been attempting so far has been destructive. This is going to keep that downward spiral. Maybe you had a window before, but not now. I agree that your actions are going to push them closer together. They are both going to see you as the enemy and you're going to give them that "my enemy is your enemy" mentality.
Stick to healing yourself first. You haven't done that yet and still have alot of anger and revenge in you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
