Help. I'm really getting pressured about the paper work. She says that i'm doing nothing and have my head in the sand. Even though I told her I've been doing plenty, just not what she's doing. It's making her angry and she says she's just going to go ahead and file without me. I don't know what to do. I have glimpses of her parenting plan from her discussions and know that she wants to take them away and have me move closer to where she wants to go so that i can have them 50% of the time. I don't want to move, I want to keep them in school here, and I want to have custody of them if she plans on moving away. I'm at a loss, lawyer says I should just sit back and wait to see what she's going to do, but it seems to be causing a lot of anger. Not sure how to handle this, anyone have some good ideas?