kml, maybe so, it can be that. But I am guessing that if the H is really into OW, he probably was looking at this more in a resigned, "gotta do it for obligation so W doesn't leave me" manner. During the time my H was having an EA, I felt like he would try to have fun with me but it sort of fell flat and I felt that it made him miss OW more....
And Abbey, what if after all the waiting and hoping that the A fizzles out, what if it doesn't and you get the bomb?
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go