What Bond said is important, of course.

You might want to contact the facilitators for your session and let them know you believe there might be an OP and see what they say about that.

IMHO, it WILL be a waste of time and money if your H is going in with the attitude that he's just jumping through a hoop for you.

Not saying that he has to be all "yay, this will fix our M" and all that. Just saying that if his mind is closed, his actions will follow...